Just a recipe on how to make lemonade ...

Hi! I am Elvi. I live, work and play in New York City. Initially I started this blog to share my experiences with the world about my breast cancer diagnosis and the chemotherapy afterwards, but now (knock knock on wood) I just write about my everyday life encounters. I believe, that every experience in life can be turned into a positive one, hence the title ... When life gives you lemons make lemonade! (And I've made lots of it already!)

Sunday, March 26, 2006

A weekend at the Berkshires, MA



I love weekends away from the city. Living in an over-crowded city every opportunity I get I try to get away. I like staying at a Bed and Breakfast for a few nights, sitting by the fireplace reading a book, taking a walk in the woods, visiting a small museum or a gallery, playing a board game or chit chatting with the hosts.

There is something tranquil and serene about B&B's with their feel of hospitality, seated in overly decorated flowery rooms, fireplaces and Jacuzzis (The only item out of the mentioned we actually enjoyed were the flowers :), the home-made breakfasts and relaxing cups of tea or coffee not in a rush in a paper cup, but served as a part of a whole ceremony.
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Driving up the small town of Lenox, MA I noticed a sign "OUTLET" stores. Despite of the fact, that I have never bought anything at an outlet store, I would never pass the opportunity of bargains of wonderful everything that I could potentially own. The listing of shops was promising: Gap, American Eagle, Mikasa aaaaand BOMBAY (furniture store with a traveler's feel)!

Geoff could "not wait" for the "experience" of what he'd most likely to call by a single word: torture. Rolling his eyes back and forth he followed me to Bombay ... the situation at this store has been so many times rehearsed ... What I like he hates ...
"It's girlie" ...
"It's feminine”....
"That would not match" ...

What he likes I hate ...
"That's like from the apartment of the 40 year old virgin!”...
"Nooo, way too manly" ...
"What the heck do you know about design, anyway?"
As customary, a shopping spree of such would end up with me storming out of the store huffing and puffing "You never like anything" ...

With a little more patience than usual we walked away with a treasure trunk and a cute puff, that "Looks like it belonged to Aladdin" (my most fierce analyst expressed his opinion) ...

A random store was having a huge sale, so we also stocked up on $5 jackets for the next skiing season and other jackets (presents to family members to liberate ourselves from the guilt of spending too much on us). Why is it, that when you buy for others – “yours” just becomes justifiable?

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On our first night out in the Berkshires we decided to visit a nightspot called “Helsinki" in Great Barrington. The day before our trip I found this tiny little town (Great Barrington) on a list of "America's nicest little towns to visit". The article was certainly correct about the size "little".



Club Helsinki is a restaurant, as well as a jazz bar with live music on most nights. Its funky decor seems a bit "out of character" for this town, but gives out a good vibe. Nothing seemed organized at the bar, the mismatched chairs and tables, a huge iron door and a stage with heavy, red theater curtain seemed to create a friendly atmosphere. A group called Honky-Tonk Girls played country songs all night. Geoff and I agreed that the music was great live, but neither of us could probably tolerate listening to the girlies on a radio or a CD. Once the cowgirls got their groove on, a few excited members of the public stood up and started to dance to the fine country tunes. A young couple of two girls looked somewhat strange as one of them tried to practice her dancing skills by shoving and pushing her partner into hard-to-replicate formulations.

For Saturday we made a reservation at Blantyre, a local mansion. The restaurant serves a three course dinner menu consisting of a variety of meats and even a few vegetarian dishes. Geoff called ahead to make sure that we did not need a formal attire, however was informed that he did need a tie and a jacket indeed. The B&B lady offered her husband's tie and the restaurant promised to set us up with a jacket.

Driving down the pitch dark driveway I could not help myself, but think of all the scary movies combined I've seen on television my entire life. A man dressed in a suit greeted us by our last name, lead us inside the beautiful mansion and offered to park the car. Geoff received the promised miss-matched navy blue jacket with three gold buttons on each sleeve. (Thank God we’re not celebrities or else we would have been featured in a fashion magazin's faux-pas section front page next week!)

There were at least three fireplaces in a huge room with heavy wooden furniture, red pillows carefully fluffed to the design of the room, flowers in large vases and art books lying around the tables. We nestled in, right next to the flaming fire in two chairs made for a King and a Queen.

A blond girl in a maid outfit rushed over giving us her undivided attention. The wine menu listed the names of familiar wines with rather unfamiliar prices of $35 - $45 per GLASS!

We ordered in the main room while listening to the mellow tunes of the piano. Later on we showed to the dining room. We must have been served by six people by the time our meals arrived - French onion soup and scallops as an appetizer, followed by crab and lamb chops and desert, of course! The service was flawless without being obnoxious (as usual at many trendy places in Manhattan). During our dinner conversation I mentioned to Geoff that I was hot, a statement which was overheard by a waiter, who politely came over and asked if I wanted to lower the temperature. "No, thank you. But if you could do something with my hot flashes from the medication, that would be great :)"

(I didn’t say that ...)

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When you're having fun the weekend is quickly over ...

I am a criminal! :)

Here I am again ... I admit, I've been a bit disloyal to my English blog, as I started a Slovak one, but I've learned my lesson!

After only 2 weeks of writing in Slovak and 3 articles later I was banned!!!
Apparently, I mislead the public! My article "How I had 3 men in 1 hour and fell in love" did not deliver the "promised" - you guessed! - sex! But instead the poor readers fell for my "trap" and were forced to find out how I rotated 3 men on the dance floor and fell in love with a dance -TANGO (Do you remember this article?)! and not the men ...

Now, had I written about my sexual experiences "of course" all would be honky-dory, but this way it's not!

The next time I'll be filling out a questionnaire for a background check I'll have to confess "I've been banned from blogging on SME for two weeks!"

Monday, March 13, 2006

Another bathroom story




"Hmmm I wish I still had mine ... "








So sorry guys if I grossed you out with Jennifer's picture! For those that wondered - she is not in a toilet, but in a bathroom sink (Even though I'd love to flush her, the time is not ripe just yet.) I just wanted to share the experience ... at the end of the day ... How often do you see a wig taking a bath?

Unintended, but the next is a bathroom story again :) ...

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On my first big day out Misa, Flora and myself went to the movies.

Misa and myself are standing on the line that wraps around the theater (of course it's the lady's room line - if you haven't guessed - and not the men's, where guys come and go every second!) and chit-chat in loud Czech about this and that, when a cute old lady almost jumps at us with a smile all over her face :

"Hiii Giiirls! What a special occasion meeting two Czech ladies at the same time! It does not happen very often here, in New York!"
(I normally don't go into explaining my Hungarian-Slovak inheritance and smile politely leaving the lady the feeling of happiness of knowing that she just met two countrywomen at the same time in a New York City bathroom!)

Another stall opens up ... I'd love to take it, but the lady is still leading a full conversation and asking million questions about what we're doing here and how long we're staying in the big apple ... (forever?)

The lady behind us (with an obvious urge to run for the open stall) gives me an extremely unfriendly frown ....

"I am so sorry, I need to go" ...

Misa is "next door" and while others wait we feel comfortable discussing the event even further in loud Czech ... (Multitasking is a skill that one learns the best here, in the fast life of the city).

We're almost done when another voice ... from 4 stalls over and 4 doors down greets us among the various "body language" sounds "Hi girls, I am Czech too" ....

Who the person was will never know ... "Good-bye stall number 4!" ....

Just shows! The world is so small!

Thursday, March 09, 2006

LoOk who's taking a bath!

Monday, March 06, 2006

Elvi News (from now on only once a week)

Ughhh I have not been writing very much lately, because I am enjoying my newly found chemo freedom though I still have numbing of my feet and feel a bit shaky at times.

My hair started growing!
Before I go to bed every night I stand in the mirror and observe the brown patch on my head and notice every millimeter growth and every single new hair. I never thought to be such a thorough observer, but I am!

I am glad to announce that besides having Jennifer, my life is slowly getting back to normal. As Elvi customary at this time of the year I get the urge to dig through my Summer closet, try on a few sun-dresses and pose for a few minutes in front of the large standing mirror in the bedroom, thus hoping that the ritual will bring me closer to warm weather and sunshine! I conclude, that bold may look good with jeans and boots, but a feminine little dress and no hair is just not an eye pleasing combination.

On a different note: Summer melted :0( I blame her life on Geoff's ice cream cravings that make him open the freezer again and again and again ...

Mickey and Saurabh visited me the other day and here is the pic Bubi took ....

Thursday, March 02, 2006

March 2nd!

Turtle, turtle! ... :0)
Will report tonight!